Category Archives for "Self Confidence"

Let Your Push Factor Override Your Fear Factor

How do you know that you have overcome a fear? When, despite the fear, you keep doing that very thing that scares the holy crap out of you! So do you want to conquer your fear? Then do me a favour. Find Your Push Factor! What is your Push Factor? It is your most compelling, […]

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5 Quotes To Live By With Wale Akinyemi

Yesterday evening, I had the great pleasure of attending a talk by Dr. Wale Akinyemi. Whenever someone tells me there is going to be a meeting that’ll add value to my life, I grab the opportunity with all hands. And I loved every minute of this particular talk. I could see why Dr. Akinyemi is […]

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Set Your Mind Right Every Day!

I used to think that positive self-affirmations were absolute hog wash! I believed it was some airy fairy stuff that some disillusioned person or schemer concocted. But, isn’t my constant barrage of negative self talk an affirmation? Yes it is! If I affirm to myself how much my day is going to suck, or how […]

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The Advantage of Looking Stupid!

I don’t know where I got it from, but until recently, I would rather have jumped off the cliff of a raging waterfall than look embarrassed or stupid in front of people. I detest looking like I didn’t know what I was doing, or looking like a failure. But I realise now more than ever […]

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6 Reasons Why You Still Feel Stuck In Life

  You know you are officially stuck when you feel like, year after year, you are going through the same motions, and you are seeing very little difference in your life. Here’s the truth: if nothing changes… then nothing changes. Here are the 8 reasons why nothing seems to be changing, and you are still […]

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What The Heck Is Wrong With You?

Nothing! Absolutely Nothing Is Wrong With You! It has been schooled, beaten and driven right inside of  too many of us, that our mistakes, failures and flaws are the sum total of who we are. This could not be further from the truth! How many times did your parents yell “What is wrong with you??” […]

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STOP BEING SO UNSURE OF YOURSELF!

We all have an internal guidance system. It’s not broken. It was designed for you to follow in order to get the very best and truest experience you can get out of your own life. But from a much earlier age, this system, which was very strong and clear inside us when we were children, […]

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Self-Support: Why You Should Never Bet Against Yourself!

Do you realize how little you think of yourself sometimes? How, little by little, we lose so much faith in ourselves that we actually stop believing in anything powerful that comes out of our mouths? Humour me. Try saying this to yourself: “I am a genius!” What are the barrage of thoughts that bombard you after […]

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Nelson Mandela: What We Must All Remind Ourselves.

I first really knew of Nelson Mandela back when he was released in 1990. I was 10 years old and didn’t see what the big deal was. My parents, but especially my father, was fixated to the TV screen as we watched live coverage of this old man, walking slowly through a humongous crowd of […]

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